I’m
grateful we have a social safety net.
It’s important to help people pull themselves up, and to provide care
for those who cannot support themselves because of serious disability. The net may not be cast broad enough, as too
many people who need help are denied services.
That said, the most important thing that led to my recovery from serious
mental illness was being denied Social Security Disability Income.
I
believe that many, if not most, people with mental illness want to recover and to
successfully manage life with illness.
They achieve wellness by applying the treatments prescribed for them,
and by using whatever adjunct therapies work for them. Still others work just as hard but are
tragically treatment resistant, and find little solace. But I was shocked when during my first
hospitalization I encountered other patients in the day room trading tips on
how to game the system and continue to receive benefits they didn’t really
deserve, because they were able to get out and be productive. Having worked in Human Resources, I know how some
businesses assume that people trying to claim disability benefits for mental
illness are exaggerating or downright faking it. Actually, most aren’t. But all are held back by those who do.
Where
does this start? I believe that
society’s expectations for people with serious mental illness are so low that
many people with illness buy into the idea that they can’t do much to help
themselves. Even professionals in the
field advise them to take menial, if any, jobs, and to lower their
expectations. When I wrote an article on
mental illness and violence, and tried to motivate people with mental illness
who manage very well and are successful to come out and stand as examples,
several professionals working in mental health told me that they doubt there
are very many people in that category.
It
was refreshing to read an op-ed piece in the New York Times by Elyn R.
Saks. She has schizophrenia and, while
being advised to take the low road by therapists and doctors, rose to become a
law professor and a researcher on how others with schizophrenia succeed while
managing their illness. She credits
work.
From
the Times: “One of the most frequently
mentioned techniques that helped our research participants manage their symptoms
was work. ‘Work has been an important part of who I am,’ said an educator in
our group. ‘When you become useful to an organization and feel respected in
that organization, there’s a certain value in belonging there.’ This person
works on the weekends too because of ‘the distraction factor.’ In other words,
by engaging in work, the crazy stuff often recedes to the sidelines.”
Even
Freud stated that: “Love and work are
the cornerstones of our humanness.”
In
the middle of a promising business career I was stricken with bipolar mixed-episodes
and psychosis. The work I had been doing
became impossible to continue. But SSDI
wouldn’t support me, so I did what I could and went to work at Starbucks. The pay was poor, but the social aspects of
work were strong and they offered health insurance for working 26 hours per
week. Instead of floundering for years,
or maybe even forever, on disability, this became a beginning. I was able to re-establish my self-esteem and
my work skills and rebuild from there.
No, I have not risen to the ranks I enjoyed before mental illness struck
so hard, but I did learn all over how to take care of myself. I have become productive again, and consider
myself very successful.
Yes,
I have been blessed with good luck as I have seized opportunities that have
become available to me. But work, and
hard work, has gotten me where I am today.
Work is as important to my recovery and the continued maintenance of my
health as any treatment I have received.
Too
few opportunities exist for all, and too few jobs offer the health insurance
needed by those with chronic illness.
Unjustly, disability insurance does not offer the chance to try to work
and fail, and then regain benefits without a lengthy waiting period. Being on long-term disability becomes a trap from which it can be hard to escape. Policy
must be changed. But I believe that
those who choose to become self-sufficient can find a way. And once that way has been found, real
healing will begin.
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