I write about, and teach, mindfulness meditation as an
adjunct therapy for mental illness. Many
in the mindfulness community extol the practice’s benefits of increasing non-judgment,
compassion, and acceptance. These, of
course, are wonderful things. But I most
want to help people manage their lives in a way that makes them self-reliant,
productive, and true to their ideas of how they can be most successful. So of all of the components of mindfulness,
the one that helps achieve these goals most immediately is focused attention.
Meditation allows me to be present and to diminish the
influence of internal chatter, especially when this chatter is self-defeating
or unreasonably self-critical. In
mindful, conscious moments I can define the person I want to be. Then, during meditation, I can let go of the
thoughts that keep me from becoming that person. As one with bipolar disorder, I spend an
awful lot of time telling myself I’m not good enough (or that I’m too good). But during meditation I can focus on the
present, on the sensory experience within and around me, and simply let those
thoughts go.
Focused attention, on the breath, or an object, or a sound
or mantra, makes one recognize all of the thoughts that race through the mind
and hijack our attention. Thoughts that
not only take us away from the object of our meditation, but distracting,
meaningless thoughts that cheat us of every experience we have. During a deliberate exercise in focused
attention, we can let go of the thoughts that intrude by noticing them but not
chasing after them. If you don’t try to
add reason to or argue with each of your passing thoughts, they will burst like
bubbles and disappear. One after
another. The focused attention exercise
I use is meditation, but I imagine you could also accomplish this playing
scales on a musical instrument, shooting free throws, rock climbing, or
chopping vegetables. I need the anchor
of the breath and the time dedicated to just sitting. Your method may be different. The point is to spend a fixed period of time
in deep focus, letting distractions pass.
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